Yes!!! I agree with the below statement.
“If you want to talk good things about a person – Talk behind him and If you want to talk bad things about a person – Talk in front of him”
But the problem for me is to judge what is a good thing and what is a bad thing? I believe that the metrics of concluding a good and a bad thing depends on the individual.
Is there a common metric to decide which is good and which is bad?
My thought process:
Good and Bad in itself is a metric used to judge people.
Ironically it is the Metrics (both good and bad) are used to measure themselves😝🥸..
There is no Unit of Measures for this Metric, rather it lies within the souls of Self. WITHIN US.
Someone feels GOOD after doing BAD (which I decide and measure the impact and velocity of the action done by someone else)
At times the degree of action decides the Good and Bad. The level of Bad in Good deeds, the extent of goodness in Bad deeds.